Love
When I think of love I am reminded of a vintage Heavy D song that asks, “Now that we’ve found love, what are we gonna do with it?” Even if you’re not familiar with the song, I’m sure you’ve asked yourself that question a time or two. I certainly know I have. Love is often confusing. It makes you laugh and cry; sometimes at the same time.
My husband and I recently celebrated our anniversary. I told him last week that we always seem to argue more around our anniversary, and I have no reason why. I’m no closer to the answer today than I was then. But I do know this: I’m thankful. Even when I’m mad at him, I’m thankful to be with him. God’s love has been the model that we’ve tried to follow. His love has been the glue that has kept us together even when we weren’t oozing love or when challenges have threatened to snuff our love out.
When I at look at the definitions for love found in I Corinthians 13, I realize that I often fall short. Am I patient? Am I kind? Am I thinking of his needs first? Sometimes. Not enough, though. When I am tempted to judge and hold grudges, I am reminded of the grace that God has shown me when I fail. He shows His love in so many ways. Can I not love my husband or my children the way God loves me?
The Bible is good at presenting us with challenges. It gives us something to strive for. Marriage is hard work, but it’s fun, too. When I love my way, it doesn’t work. But when I love the way Corinthians calls me to, it’s like a sweet berry. It is delicious and satisfying for both of us. What better expression of God’s love than to see His love shine through us to one another? How can you show love to your spouse or loved one today?
This post is the first in a new series reflecting on the Fruits of the Spirit. It is a collaborative effort inspired by my dear friend Karen. Together, several of us will be exploring the fruits over the next couple of months and sharing what God says to each of us. Please take some time to visit these lovely ladies for more on the fruit of love: